Wedding hairstyles for medium to long hair

Out of all the stresses of wedding planning, for me the idea of having to choose a hairstyle seems like it would be a nightmare. Of course this is just me and I happen to be obsessed with my hair (and rightly so, I take good care of it and trust NO ONE!). But to have to start looking through my secret hair goals pictures of JLo and Nicole Scherzinger and choose 1 style…is cruel and unusual punishment!

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How do you choose? What if you love all the styles? What if they all suit you and your dress? Do you see why my stress levels would go through the roof? Some brides stress over music, others stress over invitations…I would be stressing over hair.

I came across a few awesome wedding hairstyles for medium to long hair done by Ulyana Aster Bridal Hairstyles and had to share them with you! Check out her YouTube video and quick tutorials below!

10 awful mistakes brides make

No wedding day is completely perfect (unless it is) and there are bound to be some flubs or forgotten details. Here are 10 common mistakes brides make leading up to and on their wedding day:

  1. Don’t carve out enough time for hair and makeup

It is imperative that you consider how large your bridal party is, this should include your mother and mother in law and any flower girls you may have. If you have more than 4 ladies to do hair and makeup for, you should consider hiring two makeup artists and two hair stylists. Make sure they have both met, have pictures of the makeup and hair looks so they can get everyone done on time!

  1.  Drink the night before

Monica drunkTry to refrain from excessive drinking the night before the wedding. Alcohol can make you puffy the next day, if you are sensitive you may even get a mild headache. Trade in a cocktail or glass of wine with some sparkling water and lemon, you’ll thank us.

  1. Rule out a wedding planner

Even if you have managed to plan everything yourself, the week before your wedding is the most stressful. If you had hired a planner for the week of you could have been spending time with your family and friends. Instead, you are left running around keeping track of final payments to vendors, confirming floral deliveries, giving directions…need I continue? Hire a planner.

  1. Don’t account for hidden costs

This is a big one that gets overlooked far too often. Tipping your vendors is a must unless it’s already included in their contract.  Also ensuring they are fed at dinner time if they are present is also important. Marriage license is another hidden cost, postage for “Thank you” cards, meals on wedding day and then there is the “other” category. This is for when the power goes out and you have to buy 200 candles, or the groom forgets to pack his shoes and needs to hail a cab!

  1. Take time with parentsbride with parents

The day of your wedding you are the center of attention and everyone wants to say a word or give a hug. Don’t forget to take a few quiet moments with your parents outside of pictures. It will be a welcome break from the hustle and bustle and it will give you some one on one time with them, they will appreciate it.

6. You forget to eat

Yes, we know you need to fit into your wedding dress as snug as a bug the day of, however, we don’t need a dramatic Scarlett O’Hara fainting moment because you didn’t eat anything. A light breakfast with a few carbs for energy is suffice, lots of water and some snacks while getting ready and during pictures.

  1. Sunless tanning

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Have some practice sessions please! I can’t stress this enough. Sunless tanning can work if you find the right place to go. Be sure to go for a shade that isn’t so far off your natural skin tone, aim for a pre- wedding glow. If you overdo it or go too dark…you will be in your bathroom 2 days before your wedding with half a cup of lemon juice, a quarter cup of sugar…and a loofah sponge.

  1. Don’t feed vendors

Your vendors work hard and rightly so; this is what they do! However, if you have hired a band to entertain your guests, a planner running around behind the scenes, a photographer or videographer- they need to eat. This is customary and likely in the contract you signed when you hired them. Perhaps not what the guests are eating but feed them with something!

  1. Skimp on bridal party gifts

Take into consideration your bridal party (guys too) have spend a ton of money over the past year or so helping you plan your wedding. From wedding gifts, bachelor/bachelorette parties, outfits, dinners, to helping you solve problems, they’ve done so much. Be sure to budget a decent amount (consider how large your bridal party is) so they can feel the love and appreciation you have for all they have done.

  1. Mistreat Single friends

I’ve been one of the single gals at a table, where I don’t know anyone and most of the people I am sitting with are couples. Thankfully I have an outgoing personality and I can talk to anyone but not all your guests are going to find this situation ideal. To ease the pressure or even nerves, try to put them with at least one person at the same table that they know. Please, please have mercy!

7 Spring/Summer Bridal Trends for 2016

Seems like yesterday when we were fawning over spring trends for this year and now here we are again spilling the goods on the 2016 Spring trends!

  1. Feathers

A fabulous accent to any wedding dress traditional or contemporary.

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2. Suits

A modern twist on tradition and you have a sexy statement bridal suit…do you dare?

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3. Plunging necklines

When aren’t plunging necklines in?

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4. Blue Hues

Color is still trending from this year; shades of blue are at the top of the runway list of 2016 trends.

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5. Little Bla…err White Dress?

Perfect to change into post nuptial or if you are doing a more low key city hall type of “I do”…we do!

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6. 3D Florals

Pearls and Swarovski crystals were all the embellishments in 2015, move over, here come the flowers!

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7. Overlay Skirts

Nothing says “belle of the ball” than a gorgeous overlay skirt…pass the tiara please!

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A Few Pros and Cons to Fall Weddings

Typically, most couples opt to have their wedding in late spring or the summer months; however, fall weddings are growing in popularity as well. Here are some great reasons to tie the knot in fall and some reasons to consider not tying the know in fall!

Pro:

Outdoor fall weddings produce breathtaking photos. If you have chosen a garden or a large backyard or courtyard as your venue, you will be sure to capture the stunning colors of the changing leaves. A lovely background indeed that everyone will just love and relish!

SneezingCon:

For those who suffer from seasonal allergies (or year round allergies like yours truly), outdoor fall weddings can be a nightmare if you aren’t prepared. Whether you are the bride, a part of the bridal party or a guest, most of us are aware of our allergies so be sure to take the appropriate meds, carry eye drops and tissues.

Pro:

If you are the type that doesn’t like the idea of blazing heat and melting makeup that can result of choosing to have your wedding in July or August, behold the cooler temperatures of fall. This can be a blessing for our dear groom and groomsmen who are wearing suits, or any poor guy for that matter!

Weather dailymailcoukCon:

Fall not only brings cooler temperatures but also unpredictable weather in general. The week before your wedding the forecast may change from sunny and moderate temperatures to windy and rain. It’s difficult to prepare for since we can’t control the weather- unless we’ve opted to have the wedding indoors. However, if the plan was to take photos outside and the weather puts a damper on that, have a back-up plan in advance.

Pro:

There is nothing like getting to fully enjoy your summer with friends and family and calendar-web not having to worry about traveling to 8 weddings in 2.5 months and spending shocking amounts of money for travel, wardrobe and gifts. Having a fall wedding leaves room for vacations, family time, relaxing time and much more.

Con:

You may not realize it at the time, but there are some important secular holidays from September to December. Labor Day and Yom Kippur are in September and Canadian Thanksgiving is in October. The American Thanksgiving falls at the end of November and Hanukkah in the beginning of December. While planning you may end up losing a few attendees depending on which weekend your wedding is on.

4 ways to help you achieve perfect wedding day hair

For some of us (myself included), our hair is our best attribute. So having perfect hair on your wedding day is a huge deal. It’s a good idea to start thinking about what you want to do with your hair after you have gotten the dress. Here are some tips to help you out!

  1. Start researching

bride-computerOne helpful hint here is that it might be a good idea to get the dress or least have an idea of the sort of dress you want. I say this because depending on the neckline, you want your bridal hairstyle to compliment the neckline, not be over the top. Do some research, Google your favorite celebs hairstyles, have the girls over and go through some magazine and get some ideas. Keep the ones you really love and then start looking for a stylist, if you don’t already have one.

  1. Schedule a consultation

Even if you don’t know exactly what you want to do, this will allow you to develop consult confidence and trust in your stylist. Tell them what you absolutely won’t do, details about the dress, particularly the neckline and perhaps even then theme. This way they will be able to help come up with ideas if you don’t have any. If you do know exactly what you want, bring pictures with you so you can show her. She can try a few things while you sitting there and this will enable you both to communicate.

  1. Color your hair in advance

hair-colorIf you plan to spruce up your color be sure to do it at least a week before so it has time to settle and not look drastic. At the same token, if you are planning to do something completely different than what you have, do it a month ahead of time. This way if corrections or adjustments need to be made you will have the time, at the same time; it will give you a chance to get used to it. The most important factor here is being sure you have enough time to make changes if needed.

  1. Have Day 2 Hair on your wedding day

If you want your hair to be easier to style then don’t wash your hair the morning of hair1your appointment, wash it the night before. Sounds strange but for the most part the day you wash, your hair is super soft and shiny but won’t keep a curling iron curl after an hour! If your hair is naturally curly like mine, chances are day 2 hair is better than day 1 here are the products I use.

Hopefully you will find these tips useful in achieving your flawless bridal hairstyle that will have everyone pea green with envy!

Do these 5 things and you will survive your wedding day!

Getting your hair done at 7am, makeup at 9:30am, nails at 10:45am…wait did you drink your coffee yet? Can’t forget to call the best man and make sure all the guys are up and ready; did someone pick up the bouquets yet? In fact, where is your phone, someone find your cell phone stat! As if you don’t have a wedding to get ready for!? Well during all of the chaos there are 5 things that you or your maid of honor need to make sure you do today…besides get married.

  1. Eat

Bride eat1Now I’m not saying stuff your face full of carbs, end up bloated and not able to fit into your wedding dress, nor do I mean to devour a bunch of salty snacks to make you retain water. But since you are center of attention and will be hearing your name all day, it will be very easy to forget to eat. Now if you have an afternoon wedding, have some fruits, veggies and maybe some nuts after all of your appointments. These foods will sustain you, give you energy but won’t make you “over the top” full. Also be sure to have a water bottle kicking around. It might also be a good idea to ask your planner to have a food tray of some sort set up in the bridal suite so that after the ceremony and pictures you can all nibble here and there. It’s a long wait to dinner and we don’t need the bride or bridal party members fainting Scarlett O’Hara style.

  1. Breathe

So many things are about to happen all at once, 5 people talking all at once, 3 cell Alonephones going off, crying ring bearer and someone shut that dog up! Weddings are exciting for everyone but keep in mind there will be moments of pandemonium. You need to take a step back, or step outside your hotel room, lock yourself in the bathroom for a few minutes- and breathe. Slow deep breaths from your belly (the diaphragm) will ensure oxygen goes to every part of your body. When you breathe, your tummy should expand outward (like when you practiced your fake pregnant belly in front of the mirror- we know you did). Keeping calm will prevent dizzy spells, hot flashes and sweating…this is a good day!

  1. Have a quiet moment with your parent(s)

ParentsLet’s face it, Dad walks you down the aisle, mom gives her tear jerker Oscar-winning speech, father daughter dance and that is pretty much all you will see of your parents. If you have a lot of guests, you and your partner will be working the room all night. It will be hard to steal a few minutes away with your parents since you will be in high demand. A good time for this might be 15 minutes before the ceremony, ask you MOH to clear the room so your parents can come in and impart their words of wisdom in private. This way they will be happy and not feel hurt that they didn’t get as much time with you on your big day as they had hoped.

  1. Minimize checking your social media

If you can help it… Yes you want everyone who couldn’t make it or who lived out of textingcountry to be updated on who fought over the bouquet toss but this is your day…live it fully. To be constantly checking your phone or social media will be annoying to those who want your attention and distasteful to those who know nothing about social media i.e. your grandparents! Post everything the next day if it’s that important but if you have friends or family who have traveled far to come for your big day, that merits appreciation.

  1. Bring extra shoes

SHoesThis should be common sense but it can be something forgotten in all the hoopla and wedding day prep. The ceremony and perfect poising are now over which means the 4 inch heels you’ve had your feet jammed into all day and have been complimented on- are coming off! Not that we think a cute pair of running shoes will prompt you to runaway Julia Roberts style but if you truly want to enjoy your reception, fist pump to Rihanna, then flats are a must!

Feature Article in The Wedding Planner Magazine- Summer 2015 issue

I was so happy when I was asked to write an article for the magazine I currently work for. I really enjoyed writing this and am thankful for the opportunity! I’d like to applaud all of my amazingly talented and hard working colleagues who put so much time and dedication into this publication. Please go to our website and see all of their incredible work. You can also find us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram  I hope you enjoy! AV.

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Trending Bridal Accessories

One of my favourite aspects of planning is the hair; lame I know but until I get married I will live vicariously through my brides- bridal hair is exciting! The sky is the limit; it really just depends on the theme of your wedding and personal style. This is one aspect where you can essentially get whatever it is that you want! Bridal accessories can always enhance the theme and tone of the overall bridal look, here are some ideas.

1.  Leaves only crowns

leaf-bridal-crown2Floral crowns are lovely but they are officially overdone like a played out Taylor Swift song on the radio. Leaves only crowns simplifies the look, keeping it still very pretty but not nearly as overwhelming. Real leaves can be used and might last long than flowers as well.

2.  Headpieces

Pronovias as designed several gorgeous headpieces in their 2016 collection and this was one of my faT20-2450vourites. Headpieces can add some sparkly drama to any bridal style that is simple. With a piece like this, you can put your hair up, down or half up and it would compliment it just the same. Keep your earrings small and simple while wearing this with your hair up.

3.  Baby’s breath

babys breathThe larger flowers like the crowns again have been overdone but with smaller daintier blooms it can add to the intricacy of the style. It adds a romantic flare to pretty waves and braids and takes no time at all!

4.  Origami Hair Accessories

This is really new but was seen on the runway with Carolina Herrera gowns via Kerastase Paris. For all of you fashion forward brides that want a bit of an edge to go with perhaps a softer hairstyle, this could be it.  Be sure to have your piece designed based on your hairstyle and face shape so it doesn’t crowd your features.  2015-Bridal-Beauty-Trends-Bridal-Musings-Wedding-Blog-1

These are only a few of the newer bridal hair accessories that are trending this year but you can also opt for more classic pieces as well. Bird cage veils, jeweled bobby pins, and single blooms still have a beautiful impact on most bridal styles so you can be sure there is an accessory for your style.

Photos via Bridalmusings.com